My wish

I love to be around gentle people. These are the human beings who make me feel peaceful, at ease, accepted. They remind me in a beautiful way that the world is not about conflict and anger and dissatisfaction, but about acceptance and balance and the sharing of peace.

Some of the most gentle people I've ever known have been the strongest physically. Their physical strength, though, wasn't anything that they've taken advantage of. Rather, it simply was a fact, something that they could use if absolutely necessary, but that they truly didn't need.

I would like to be one of these gentle people. I would like to provide a presence that other people find peaceful and reassuring. I would like them to know that if they are with me, they will leave behind the greed and vanity that's so predominant in our world. My gentleness, if I ever achieve it, can be a haven to them, a place where they can escape the stress of the world and be themselves.

Gentleness seems to be one of the side effects of enlightenment, and I believe that if I ever reach a state of enlightenment, gentleness will naturally be a part of me. This is a good reason to pursue being gentle now--perhaps our practice of the gentle arts of life can help us to reach an enlightened state. And from that state, we can be much more helpful to others.

Everyday life doesn't have to be the stress and violence that we read in the papers or see in the news. Everyday life is what we make it, what we search out, how we choose to spend our time and whom we choose to spend it with. And the gentleness is there, just waiting for us to be there, too.